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Imagine you’re in Las Vegas, caught up in the excitement of the lights, the sounds, and the thrill of the games. But luck isn’t on your side, and you end up losing $1,000. Now, you’re faced with an uncomfortable reality—you need to ask for help to cover your rent. How do you approach the ask when your options include your grandparent, parent, close friend, and co-worker? Each approach needs to be different, tailored to who you’re asking.

For the sake of these examples, let’s assume each person falls neatly into a generational category:

Grandparent (Baby Boomer): Asking your grandparent for help might feel daunting and humbling. You’re likely worried about disappointing them or seeming irresponsible. When you sit down over a cup of coffee, your heart is pounding. You share the story of your gambling loss, focusing on your feelings of regret and the lesson learned. You emphasize how much their support would mean to you, drawing on family loyalty and trust. They may feel concerned but, also proud that you came to them. Their response is likely empathetic, offering not just financial help, but also advice and reassurance. If you’re lucky, you might get an embarrassing story about your parents.

Parent (Generation X): This is going to be difficult. Approaching your parent with this request feels nerve-wracking and might trigger feelings of guilt or embarrassment. Probably both. So you decide to send a detailed email to be clear and straightforward to avoid any misunderstandings. You explain your situation and the impact their support would have. Let’s face it – you’ll probably over-explain even though your parents will pick up on the ask right away. You worry they might see this as a failure to manage your finances, or worse, a flaw in your character. But you hope they’ll appreciate your honesty. Then you make an uncomfortable follow-up call to ensure they’ve read your message. (Oh shoot! They picked up!) They might feel a mix of concern and understanding, appreciating your transparency and desire to resolve the issue responsibly. But you know there’s an inevitable “I told you so” moment coming.

Close Friend (Millennial): Asking a close friend for help involves a different set of emotions—there’s a blend of vulnerability and trust. You send a heartfelt text message sharing a personal story that includes lots of self-deprecating humor to ease the tension. You appeal to their sense of loyalty, making the ask feel authentic and urgent. You might feel exposed and worried about their judgment, but also hopeful because of the deep bond you share. Your friend likely feels a mixture of surprise and empathy. And disappointment (“You didn’t invite me?”), but there’s a good chance they’ll help if they can. One thing is for sure: The will not let you forget this.

Co-worker (Generation Z): Asking a co-worker is tricky and might make you feel awkward and worried about professional boundaries. You choose a quick, engaging digital platform like a messaging app. You share a meme or a short video, explaining your situation with humor or a relatable tone. You manage your emotions by keeping it light and approachable. They might feel a mix of amusement and concern, appreciating your candidness and the innovative way you asked. Their response could be prompt and practical, or they may think you’re crazy.

You probably see where I’m going with this. This same principle applies to nonprofit campaigns targeting different generations. Understanding the unique preferences and behaviors of each generation can significantly enhance your nonprofit’s campaign strategies. This will ensure your message resonates. And that will lead to increased engagement and support. So, take the time to know your audience, speak their language, and connect in ways that matter to them.

Generational Responses to Nonprofit Campaigns

Baby Boomers (Born 1946-1964)

  • Characteristics: Civic-minded, loyal, prefer traditional communication methods.
  • Response to Campaigns: High trust in established nonprofits. Respond well to direct mail and phone calls. Prefer face-to-face interactions and personal stories. Strong inclination towards legacy giving and large donations.
  • Strategies to Reach: Use direct mail with personalized letters. Organize in-person events and meetings. Highlight the nonprofit’s history and trustworthiness. Emphasize the impact of their donations over time.

Generation X (Born 1965-1980)

  • Characteristics: Skeptical, independent, value work-life balance.
  • Response to Campaigns: Prefer concise and straightforward messages. Use a mix of digital and traditional communication. Interested in specific outcomes and impact reports. Less brand loyal, more cause-driven.
  • Strategies to Reach: Use email newsletters with clear impact statements. Incorporate social media, but keep messages concise. Provide transparency and detailed reports on the use of funds. Offer flexible giving options, like monthly contributions.

Millennials (Born 1981-1996)

  • Characteristics: Tech-savvy, socially conscious, value experiences.
  • Response to Campaigns: Engage heavily with social media and online content. Prefer online donations and crowdfunding platforms. Value authentic and transparent communication. Driven by causes that align with their personal values.
  • Strategies to Reach: Utilize social media platforms for campaigns. Create shareable content and storytelling videos. Leverage influencers and peer recommendations. Offer volunteer opportunities and events.

Generation Z (Born 1997-2012)

  • Characteristics: Digital natives, value diversity and inclusion, socially and environmentally conscious.
  • Response to Campaigns: Engage primarily through digital and mobile platforms. Respond to visual content, especially videos and memes. Prefer peer-to-peer fundraising and micro-donations. Expect quick, tangible results and feedback.
  • Strategies to Reach: Utilize platforms like Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube. Create engaging and interactive content. Highlight social justice and environmental causes. Implement gamification and challenges.


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